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For Wives & Partners
Many wives and partners find this site before he does. If you are here because something broke—or because you are trying to decide what to do next—you are in the right place.
Betrayal trauma is real. Discovering porn, secrecy, or a double life can leave you unsteady, angry, and unsure who you are talking to. That response makes sense.
What the group is
- A weekly men's group, led by Derek Evans, M.A., LPC-MHSP(A).
- A small closed group of 6–8 men.
- A place he can tell the truth and get a plan.
What it isn't
- Not couples therapy.
- Not a promise that the marriage will be okay.
- Not a substitute for your own support.
Rebuild helps you become someone she can trust again. For your marriage, we also offer couples therapy through Alliance.
You deserve your own support. Consider counseling with someone who understands betrayal trauma—not only as his partner, but as someone carrying this. A trusted friend, pastor, or your own therapist can sit with you while he does his work. If you want a place to start, email Derek. derek@derekevanscounseling.com.
